50 Friendship Quiz Questions: "This or That" Questions About Me

A "how well do you know me" quiz is a fun way to find out which friends really pay attention. The best questions are quick to answer, have two clear options, and say something real about you — so everyone who knows you well gets them right.

Here are fifty this-or-that questions you can use in a friendship quiz, a couple quiz or just a long WhatsApp chat. They are grouped by topic, and every one of them has exactly two options, which is all our quiz games need.

Food and drinks

Everyone has strong opinions about food.

Chai or coffee?
Biryani or pizza?
Sweet or spicy?
Gol gappay or samosay?
Mango or watermelon?
Home food or a restaurant?
Paratha or cereal for breakfast?
Ice cream or kulfi?
Karahi or tikka?
Cold drink or fresh juice?

Habits

The small things only close friends notice.

Early bird or night owl?
Call or text?
Stay home or go out?
Planner or last-minute?
Tidy room or messy room?
Window seat or aisle seat?
Reply instantly or leave it on seen?
Up on the first alarm or snooze ten times?
Morning shower or night shower?
Walk or take a ride?

Likes

Favourite things and places.

Mountains or beach?
Summer or winter?
Cricket or football?
Movies or dramas?
Books or podcasts?
Cats or dogs?
Rain or sunshine?
Shopping mall or bazaar?
Photos or videos?
Instagram or TikTok?

Personality

The questions that separate real friends from the rest.

When angry: go silent or say it out loud?
Introvert or extrovert?
Give advice or just listen?
Forgive quickly or hold a grudge?
Laugh at my own jokes or keep a straight face?
Brave or careful?
Lead or follow?
Talk about feelings or keep them inside?
Spend or save?
Honest even when it hurts, or kind first?

For couples and best friends

For the people who should know you best.

Surprise gift or quality time?
Fancy dinner or street food?
Long drive or movie night?
Show care with words or with actions?
Who says sorry first — me or you?
Flowers or chocolates?
Texts all day or one long call?
The planner or the spontaneous one?
When upset: give me space or talk to me?
Remember important dates or forget them?

Tips

Pick questions with an answer that is true about you, not the answer you wish were true.
Ten questions is the sweet spot: long enough to separate real friends, short enough to finish.
Mix easy questions with a few only your closest friends would know.
Avoid questions where both answers are equally true for you — they turn into guesses.
For a couple or best-friend quiz, use the last group of questions.